Intimacy Coaching

Cultivate a genuine connection with yourself to enhance your love, communication, and understanding in all your relationships.

✧ Healing Through Intimacy ✧

✦ Relationship Dynamics ✦

✧ Queer Affirming Support ✧

Discover the power and pleasure in your non-conventional and queer relationships:

→ Heal past relationship wounds, and cultivate authentic relationships with yourself and others

→ Expand your understanding of intimacy beyond the physical through communication styles and healthy boundaries

→ Embrace your unique identity with confidence and be empowered in your relationships

It’s time for radical self-love and liberation.

With over a decade of experience, I help you uncover what’s yearning to be seen so you can be empowered to create the relationships and life you desire.

Let’s Rise in Love!

Coaching Focus

Healing Through Intimacy

✧ Heal emotional wounds related to intimacy and relationships.

✧ Establish practices for self-compassion and forgiveness.

✧ Explore how past experiences shape current relationship dynamics.

✧ Cultivate emotional intelligence and empathy for yourself and others.

Relationship Dynamics

✧ Improve communication and conflict resolution skills

✧ Navigate polyamory and ethical non-monogamy while remaining true to yourself

✧ Discover safe new ways to connect through kink and BDSM dynamics

✧ Cultivate a positive and curious approach to play, partnership, and romance

Queer-Affirming Support

✧ Support in navigating coming out and identity exploration

✧ Overcoming religious suppression and shame

✧ Tools for building resilience in the face of societal challenges

✧ Exploration of queer sacred sexuality practices and spirituality

Our Process

I believe intimacy is a transformational tool to support queer individuals and couples in various relationship styles to help you cultivate meaningful connections and explore the depths of your own sexuality.

The truth is…

If you find yourself living outside societal norms, you likely approach intimacy and connection in a unique way.

You may have felt that traditional models of relationships don’t resonate with your experiences, making it challenging to understand and express yourself.

You crave genuine connections and honest communication, but developing the skills to articulate your wants, needs, and desires with compassion can take time and practice.

This is why intimacy coaching is essential.

While the journey may not always be easy, leaning into discomfort can reveal a world of possibilities waiting to be explored.

With the right tools and support, you can uncover new ways to connect deeply with yourself, nurture your relationships, and celebrate your individuality.

Let’s work together to transform your relationships and deepen your connection to yourself.

→ Book your first breakthrough call

→ Define your desired outcome

→ Begin your intimacy journey

Testimonials

  • “I've been fortunate enough to work with a number of excellent coaches from various backgrounds, and I mean it when I say that Devaiya has the goods! Their coaching is powerful, evocative and pragmatically useful. I walked away with a deeper connection to my body, my strengths, and a much more embodied recognition of my recent growth and healing. Devaiya holds great space, and brings a wonderful invitation into presence and embodiment. Would recommend!”

    Alex Campbell, Coach and Musician, Victoria BC

  • “Devaiya is patient and attentive, and I feel like he understood instantly what I was looking for in our coaching call. Highly recommended!”

    Matthew, Entrepreneur, Kaohsiung, Taiwan

  • “My coaching session helped me with reframing dialogues I’d been having with and about myself, and this reframing has been helping me with getting out of my own way. Additionally, the guidance through mind body connection and processing emotions helped me connect to my body in a way I haven’t for a really long time.”

    Meg, Social Worker, Vancouver BC

Your Intimacy Coach

Hey, I’m Devaiya.

He/They | Two-Spirit
Métis Celtic Lineage

Like you, I’ve navigated a lot of challenges in my relationship with myself and others.

From healing self-sabotage, deprogramming religious beliefs, navigating dishonesty, and recovering from past trauma, I understand how complicated expressing your truest self in relationships can be.

I have worked hard to be true to myself, understand my desires, and build authentic connections with others.

I'm committed to supporting you through your edges so that you can express your wants, needs, and desires to cultivate connections with integrity, clarity, confidence, and respect for yourself and others.

We all have our unique experiences, but at the end of the day, we never cease to be human. And collectively, we yearn for connection and compassion so that we can love and care for each other in ways that celebrate our humanity, together.

Our Time Together

Change takes time. A three-month commitment is recommended to fully explore your intimacy journey, allowing you to confidently experience transformation in yourself and your relationships.

What you receive:

→ Weekly or Bi-Weekly Calls

→ Session Notes and Recordings

→ Guidebooks and Resources

Investment: $150/session

LGBTQIA2S+ / BIPOC rates available

Book a reduced rate call here

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 FAQs

  • Intimacy Coaching provides a supportive space where we work together to enhance your relationships, explore your identity, and overcome barriers to authentic connection. It's about taking action to achieve the intimacy and understanding you desire in your unique relationship style.

  • This coaching is ideal for LGBTQ+ individuals and couples in non-traditional relationships who are ready to deepen their connections. It's for those willing to explore their sexuality, improve communication, and navigate the complexities of non-monogamous relationships.

  • Our sessions are built on trust and confidentiality. We'll explore your identity, relationship dynamics, and personal goals. Each session is tailored to engage with your unique experiences, fostering growth in intimacy, communication, and self-understanding.

  • We focus on practical steps and real-world applications. Each session connects your current experiences with your desired outcomes. We'll develop strategies for navigating queer relationships, non-monogamy, and personal growth, leading to tangible changes in your intimate life.

  • My approach combines queer-affirming practices, an understanding of diverse relationship structures, and intuitive guidance. Our sessions provide a judgment-free space to explore your sexuality, relationship style, and personal boundaries.

  • While I'm committed to your growth, the application of our discussions is in your hands. Therefore, I don't offer refunds. However, I'm dedicated to working with you to ensure our sessions meet your unique needs and relationship goals.